Thursday, May 1, 2014

How to be a good liar

Telling a lie is not something that is advisable unless it is completely and absolutely necessary. It is also not advisable for those whose beliefs prevent them from telling a lie at any situation.
According to many, sometimes lying is abselutely necessary and it can prevent some unwanted things from happening in our lives.
Sometimes not being good at lying can even get us in more trouble that net telling a lie and getting in trouble.
Well here are some tips on how to tell a good lie and be a good liar.
1) believe the lie yourself:- Sometimes people can detect a lie just by seeing one's eyes and the way one acts when telling a lie. In order for that not to happen, one has to believe the lie. If one momentarily believes in the lie, one wouldn't show the signs that one may show when telling a lie one didn't believe in.
2) Try to get real convictions to the story so that it would be easy to believe the lie:- For example if one wants to tell a lie stating that one is sick when one is really not, one can try to
- imagine that one is sick while telling the lie
- try to think of little discomforts that one has at the time one is telling a lie and try to believe that they are sicknesses themselves.
- think of a recent sickness and believe that it hasn't completely been cured even if it did and even if it did try to believe that there are some aftereffects.
The above tips help in believing the lie so that those hearing the lie wouldn't detect it on one's face.
3) Don't think of the truth or the fact that you are telling a lie but be bold faced:- Thinking of the truth and the fact that one is lying while telling a lie makes it terribly obvious that one is lying to those that are listening.
4) Try to connect to the stories and try to be emotional according to your normal accord :- Don't over do or under do this step. Because your normal state of feelings are best fit for you. 
5) Don't be afraid to look at the listener right in the eye:- Looking at the listener right in the eye makes the listener think that one has a full confidence and therefore must be telling the truth.
6) Stick to the story:- For one's lie to work in the long term, one should stick to the story through thick and thin whatever happens.

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