Love is a legitimate state of emotion which has the potential to gravitate the bearer towards it. It is almost all the time incited naturally. It grows into a very strong state if visited adequately in its positive light and not negative. Also by adequately doing acts that are the fruits of it. The legitimate state of love is a potential emotional gravitational force within oneself that has different tunes and textures.
Love does not only grow in the emotional environment of the one that is showing love but also it grows in the emotional state of the one that is being loved as well. eg:- A child growing to have love for parents.
Like most things granted to living things by nature, love also is devised by nature for life or species showing this emotional state to have a better chance of survival. Love gives the bearer a push to do something that otherwise the bearer wouldn't have done or would have been a lot more reluctant and a lot less effective. By doing so it is most likely to guarantee safety for some and ability to reproduce for others. Some examples are:-
- Parents care, nurture and protection for their children,
- Fighting for someone one loves,
- Taking care of elderly family members etc.
Nature also sugarcoated love with temporary pleasures and displeasure(displeasure if negated). It coated it with emotional satisfaction and emotional dissatisfaction(If action taken against and despite the feeling.) eg:- Moral satisfaction, Self guilt, Pleasure of love, Loneliness etc...
Like everything else, a more evolved and mature love is the stronger and a more stable one. Love felt in an instant or an infant love is a potential to be a strong stable everlasting state. But it is prone to death and elimination if not paid adequate care, attention and if not fed. The main food for love is the response or feeling of the other party.
Hate is the opposite of love. As its opposite, acts of hate in its environment is like an antimatter. If the love is in an infant state, it(hate) has the potential to kill it quickly.
There are different types of love that differ in tune and texture. For example, love for a mother is not the same as love for a wife.
The deciding factor that plays a role in determining the texture that a love turns out to have is on what the love was based on and from what state and intention that the love was born out of also in what direction it was directed to take in its infancy and young state.
The texture that a love is suppose to take is incited at first by nature. For example, a mother feels a certain type of love by nature when she first bears a child and she can make it grow in that direction. Also a young man naturally may feel love in a different texture when he sees a woman he is attracted to and also he can make it grow in its own direction. Differences in texture can be seen in examples of different types of love. Eg:-
- Love for parents or children
- Love for a wife or girlfriend
- Love for self
- Love for general others
- Love for something one does. etc...
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